So let’s talk about the thing that most of you probably are to shy to address; sex after kids. I think we all heard of the saying your sex life goes to shit after having kids… well it is not all true.
After giving birth we women will most probably need some time to feel and get back to feeling like ourselves. It is only normal, our hormones and bodies went through a major change. Let your partner know how you are feeling and that it won’t last forever. I mean if they do not appreciate the fact that a human just came out of your vagina you probably chose the wrong partner.
So let’s get back to it, yes it may become harder to find the time to be intimate with your partner but who said it cannot be fun to try to find the time. Make it a game or even just keep it fun and kinky. When you walk by each other make a sensual gesture or throughout your day talk about how your night may turn out later after the kids are asleep. (Even if you both know you will probably end up falling asleep).
Have a quicky during nap time. Yes, it may not be what you were used to before, but be happy with the change. Having date nights are a must! It really does help you keep that bond with your partner. Now why not turn that date into a wild night of sex and intimacy.
The best way I believe to help your sex life is to basically talk to your partner about your sex life. There is no need to be shy or embarrassed by it. It’s only normal that life gets in the way and sometimes you’re just too tired. All of it is normal, so you are not alone.
